“One of the biggest issues today is our disconnect from nature—a trend that alarmingly extends even to younger generations.” Robin Nguyen
We’re all born with different “seeds” of energy—some of us arrive bursting with confidence and clarity, others with areas that need more nurturing. Some excel in a single domain, while others spread their talents across many. Some are naturally pragmatic, others endlessly creative; some driven by iron will, others guided by gentle empathy. Those whose seeds are richer may taste success and happiness sooner, but everyone’s path is valid—and often the richest lessons come from overcoming obstacles.
Parents should avoid comparing their child to others or applying a one-size-fits-all approach. Instead, they should focus on nurturing their child’s unique strengths and fostering their development into a responsible and compassionate citizen. Here’s how:
- Resist comparison and pressure. Your child isn’t you—and forcing your own goals onto them can become a heavy burden.
- Focus on character, not trophies. Teach responsibility, kindness, curiosity and civic awareness.
- Match guidance to each developmental phase. Every age has its milestones; helping a toddler learn self-control looks very different from coaching a teen toward self-direction.
Cultivating strengths and smoothing rough edges
- If your child is impulsive or quick-tempered, build in daily rituals—yoga stretches, mindfulness games, or exercise routines—that expand their ability to pause and focus.
- If your child is soft-spoken or shy, create small-group social settings, give them leadership roles in family tasks, or enroll them in workshops where they can safely stretch their independence.
Your child’s road to “success” will look different One kid’s triumph might be launching a startup; another’s, showcasing in a gallery; another’s, learning to regulate emotions well enough to build a loving home. Success isn’t a fixed target or a number on a report card—it’s the ongoing process of growth and self-evolution. Even those who start with abundant gifts have a responsibility to lift others along the way.
Author: Robin Nguyen
